If he completely puts up a wall, that's a sign the relationship might not be safe to invest in. Also think about whether he gives any signs he would do it again, like goes out and doesn't reply in his texts, goes on suspicious trips, flirts with other girls etc.Also find out when and where he cheated; that information may come in handy if you ever suspect he’s cheating on you. Remember that abuse can be both physical and emotional.
Celebrities' scandalous pasts are smeared across the tabloids, and yet, their love lives continue to thrive. Many of us encounter some degree of unfaithfulness in our relationships.(If you haven't, you can read about the details here.) After that woman was done dying of embarrassment, she probably had a decision to make: Does she try to repair her marriage or simply throw in the towel?Her husband would also have to ponder a thing or two, perhaps most important: Could I trust her to never cheat again?So science and common sense, it would seem, would warn us all away from dating someone who's cheated in the past, or taking back a boyfriend or husband after he's been unfaithful. Should we be willing to take a chance on a cheater? Unless you've been living under a rock, you know that Tiger Woods and Lindsey Vonn are officially a thing.Clarify where he's coming from If he's being honest about his past and offering the steps he's taking to not fall in the same trap, it's a good sign he's open and that he'll be honest with you in this relationship.